Amazing over 50’s – Guest post

I’m very excited to introduce another guest to my new series:

Amazing over 50’s

I’m inviting and featuring ‘Mid-lifers’ who are enjoying life over 50 and who are proud to shout out about great health, fitness, lifestyles, work, achievements etc, but more importantly who are embracing this time of their lives with pride.

I’m so pleased to introduce Terry Tyler this month as my third guest to this series.

Terry is an accomplished author of seventeen books available on Amazon, the latest being UK2, the third book in her post apocalyptic series, Project Renova. She is proud to be self-published, is an avid reader and book reviewer, and a member of Rosie Amber’s Book Review Team.

A Guest Post – The Amazing over 50’s

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Terry Tyler
 

I asked Terry to tell us a little about her working life and her blog

I was born in Cambridgeshire and moved via Northampton and Norfolk to Geordieland, where I have lived for the past 9 years. Nowadays I sit at home and write novels, but in the past I worked in Jobcentres, had my own gift shop for several years, ran a deli, was a nursing assistant in a psychiatric hospital, and did the usual bar/café jobs that most people leave off their CVs but provide some of my jolliest memories.  All of which have become material for books, of course.  Smiley face with a wink.

I have 2 blogs. I started my personal one in 2012 because someone told me that writers need them; it took me about 6 months to understand why.  Your blog is somewhere to write all the stuff that pops into your head that has no place in novels. Mine includes articles about writing and publishing, general ‘life’ stuff (random ideas that occur to me), TV/film reviews and recommendations. My other blog is for book reviews, which I started 3 years ago when I became a member of Rosie Amber’s Book Review Team. I read between 5 and 10 books every month and always review, because I know how important this is to writers

Do you remember how you felt before or when turning 50 and how you feel now in relation?

On the day itself: just fine, no different from any other day. Then a year or so later, when the menopause really kicked in, I became really downhearted and thought it was all over. But that didn’t last long; as my hormonal state changed, so did my head. Now, I’m happy in my own company, appreciate my family more, and just feel much more at peace, generally; I peer at my increasing amount of lines and white hairs with slightly appalled fascination, rather than terror!

Do you enjoy staying fit and healthy?

My immediate reaction to this question was ‘pass’, because in the last 2 years I have not been nearly as active as I should be, which means that my fitness levels have plummeted.  This is not just because writing novels necessitates sitting down most of the time, but because I have some knee problems that keep flaring up.  At the moment it’s as much as I can do to hobble around the supermarket once a week, but I am optimistic, and so fed up with not being able to stride out amongst trees and green that I am sure once I am better I will go for those 4 long walks a week that I always vow I will take – I will, I will!


On the plus side, I have almost stopped both smoking and drinking, both of which I was still doing far too much up until about 7 years ago.  As of May 19th I am pleased to report that I’ve only had 5 cigarettes this year, and no alcohol at all.  The alcohol bit is easy because I just went off it; I think it was my body telling me it’d like a drop of something weaker.
Last year I became a vegan; now, when I’m eating vegetables instead of red meat, blueberries and grapes instead of ice cream, and drinking green tea instead of wine, I hope I’m stopping myself from falling down dead.

I definitely feel the benefit; my skin is better, my hair grows faster (although this does mean I have to get the roots done more often), I rarely get that sluggish feeling, and my (ahem!) digestive system, something I’ve always had problems with, now works as it should.  A recent health check at the doctor told me that my blood sugar, cholesterol and blood pressure have all improved, which is not to be sniffed at.

Wow that’s brilliant and just goes to prove that healthy eating really can improve your general all round wellbeing.  I hope your knee problems are better soon Terry.  Are there things you’ve achieved after turning 50 that you’re proud of?

To be honest I don’t walk about thinking, ‘wow, I’ve achieved such-and-such’, I just get on with stuff because it’s what I want to do.  I haven’t wasted the past decade, though.  I’ve published all my books since I was 50 (I am now 58), developed a good readership, and made lots of new friends via the online writing/blogging community.  I started writing novels 25 years ago but never did much with it; I started again after a 10 year gap, in 2010, and then my sister told me about Amazon Kindle. I’ve never wanted to be other than self-published; this way I can write what I want, when I want.  Also, during this period I got married for the third time, which is like finding a peaceful haven after a long, eventful journey. Though I’m not sure that’s an achievement, probably just good luck!

Birhday blur

Publishing 17 books since turning 50 is a great achievement Terry!  Anything else you’d like to add with regards to life after 50, or any messages for people?

  • The menopause doesn’t last forever, and when it’s over you’ll feel okay again. Honest!
  • It’s time to do what you want to do, not what society/the neighbours/your family expects. You want to ‘downsize’, and/or sell up and travel Europe in a VW camper van? Do it. Cut out the relationship that you’ve only stayed in so you won’t feel lonely, the friend who doesn’t appreciate you. If you hate your job, ask yourself if it’s worth it. This is your life. You’ve already lived more than half of it, maybe even two thirds—we have to try not to keep repeating the same mistakes.
  • Alas, age is not just a number, physically, because your body does start to deteriorate, but taking care of your health can make a huge difference. Even if you think, ‘but I’ve stopped drinking and smoking, I walk alot and eat all this fruit and I still don’t feel like I did when I was 30’—no, you won’t. What you’ll feel like is a healthy 50-something, rather than an unhealthy one. And that is worth a great deal.

Thank you, Sam, for inviting me to your blog, and I hope your readers have enjoyed my offering!

Thank you Terry for being my third guest in my series – Amazing over 50’s

It’s been a pleasure hearing all about you and your journey and that’s great advice for an up and coming 50 something 🙂   Good luck with your latest book UK2

You can find Terry’s blog here at terrytyler59.blogspot.co.uk

Terry’s Twitter page: https://twitter.com/TerryTyler4

Terry’s Amazon Page: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Terry-Tyler/e/B00693EGKM

If you’re loving your ‘Mid Life’ and would like to be a guest in my ‘Amazing over 50’s’ series please contact me Here and help me ‘Shout Out for the over 50’s’ 🙂

 

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22 thoughts on “Amazing over 50’s – Guest post

    1. Thanks for reading, Suzanne – though I certainly can’t boast your levels of fitness and don’t think I will ever be able to;I read your post and thought, oh dear, does Sam really want me to be on this??!! 😉

    2. Thank you Suzanne. I loved what Terry said about the menopause and about getting out there to live your life. Thanks for reading 🙂

  1. I’m sorry to hear about the knee. That would certainly mean you’d have to cut back on the walking.It’s good to read about all you’ve achieved in your 50s.

    1. Thanks for reading April, Terry is certainly an inspiration and puts forward some great points 🙂

    2. Thanks for reading, April! Yeah, with the knee it’s not so much ‘have to cut back on’ right now, as ‘can’t’ – but I’m hoping it will get better for a while before it ‘goes’ again!! x

  2. I’m as optimistic as you are, Terry, about the knees, keep at it. And you’re right, you are what you eat; after all, we’re organic beings, so if we stop poisoning ourselves with nutritionally barren ‘food’ and alcohol, we can actually improve our appearance at any age. Oh and, Sam, I am the sister mentioned in Terry’s interview, and if you ever fancy doing a post about turning 60, I’m your man! (Woman, ha!)

    1. Oh hi there Julia 🙂 Thank you and hey 60 is over 50 right?? If you’d like to guest post that would be great! 🙂

      1. Thanks, Sam – and it was Julia who assured ME that it got better once the menopause was over, and she was right! I would love to see her post on here – and she does some stuff that really IS inspirational 🙂 x

    1. Thank you 🙂 The Amazing over 50’s is a fairly new series for my blog and I am personally so inspired by my guests so far. I’m looking forward to interviewing many more Amazing over 50’s here 🙂

    2. You just wait, Rosie….. ha ha ha!!! 😀 😀

      On the bright side, you’ve already put yourself in great stead with all that walking 🙂

  3. Wow! Thanks for sharing — and to Sam for hosting!

    In total awe of your achievements, Terry — 17 books in eight years?! Well, yes, just wow! Much respect… Off-topic, you may find your aches and pains start to diminish now you’ve embraced a healthy diet — so many conditions are caused by inflammation which in turn is caused by not always eating and drinking as prudently as we could…

    1. Two were short story collections, and two novellas, Eugenie ~ and I write all the time, so if you take them away it’s only two books a year, which is not that much at all!! But thank you!

      I always did eat fairly healthily; the red meat and ice cream were not every day occurrences; the line was more for comic effect! Before I was a vegan I often ate fish and vegetables and fruit and yogurt for dinner, though I did eat processed meals because I don’t like cooking – BAD! But I’ve always been a fruit and veg freak. With my knees t’s mostly arthritis, and knackered cartilage, and I had (have) a condition in the left knee called PVNS, which is a thickening of the sinovium; it’s quite a new discovery and doctors don’t know what causes it yet. Or didn’t when it first happened two years ago! But yes – when you take care of what you put inside yourself, everything improves, I totally agree 🙂 Thanks for reading!

    2. Thank you for reading Eugenie, yes I totally agree, I’m amazed even at the difference in my joints by just drinking more water daily!

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